Before you become a victim of your own desires, here are a few things to keep in mind:

Faith

Believe in your abilities and acknowledge the fact that you have the capability of overcoming the odds, which are making you feel insecure. Instead of hoping for things to fall in place on its own, take a vow to resolve the situation on your own. Pen down 10 reasons to prove to yourself that you have adequate competency to overcome the insecurity.

Confront

Confront the situation and dig deep by questioning yourself:

• Why these circumstances arose in the first place
• What actions or thoughts have lead to this feeling of insecurity and is making you feel miserable.

You must be able to appreciate your shortcomings resulting in your prevailing circumstances. Now make a promise that such mistake will not be repeated.

Laws of Nature

Acknowledge the fact that your actions are in your capacity but the results of those actions are not. The results of all the actions are taken care of by the laws of nature, which are unbiased and neutral for every one of us. Be willing to accept the circumstances as the result of your inappropriate actions in the past. Have absolute faith that from now on, your actions will be desirable resulting in desirable circumstances and soon the Laws of Nature will bless you with favorable circumstances.

Act patiently

It is the over reaction to a situation which multiplies ones insecurity. Therefore, lie loose and avoid trying too hard to get out of the current mess at the earliest. Patiently observe and see in which direction things are going and the reasons behind it. If the situation is further making you insecure, identify the catalyst and start by addressing it. Avoid acting on all the reasons simultaneously as you may be in the danger of entangling yourself further and hence feeling more vulnerable.